how to know if your girlfriend is cheating on you

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A lack of trust can doom a perfectly good relationship to
failure. Still, if you have good reasons for suspecting that
your girlfriend is cheating on you, then the sooner you
know, the better. If you want to know if she's really being
unfaithful, just follow these steps to find out.
See if she starts caring a lot more about her
appearance. If your girlfriend's wardrobe has
suddenly tripled over the last two months, but you've
barely been out on a date, then she may dressing up for
someone other than you. It could be a coworker, a
classmate, or just about anyone else in her life. And if
she's suddenly putting a lot more time into her hair and
makeup when she says she's just headed to the grocery
store or to grab coffee with a friend, then something may
be up.
If she's suddenly spent more time at the gym and is
much more interested in getting in shape, she may be
doing it for another guy.
Just to be clear -- she may also just start caring about
her appearance because she wants to look nicer and be
more in shape. But this point, coupled with others, can
be a sign of cheating.
See if she withdraws from your family. She might
have loved going to your aunt's monthly barbecues,
but when the last three rolled around, she was suddenly
booked. Maybe she went shopping with your kid sister all
the time before, but they haven't spoken in weeks. And as
for hanging out with your parents? She might have been
friendly and outgoing before, but when she's with them,
she's suddenly quiet or just looks ready to leave.
If she's cheating, then seeing your family will be a
reminder of her disloyalty, and she'll naturally want to
avoid them.
If she starts withdrawing from your family, it may also
just be a sign that she's ready to end the relationship,
whether she's cheating or not.
See if she withdraws from your friends. The same
goes for your friends -- though she might have
previously loved group trips to the beach or to trivia night
with your friends, if she suddenly never wants to hang out
with them, then it may be because she's trying to extricate
herself from you. If she's cheating on you, then she may
feel like she doesn't deserve to be in your social circle, or
she doesn't want a reminder of how much fun you used to
have before things went sour.
If this becomes really obvious, don't be afraid to ask
her why. She could have another explanation for why
she doesn't want to spend time with your friends.
And when she does hang out with you and your friends
and their behavior seems to change and they act all
uncomfortable around her, then they may know
something that you don't. This is a classic sign that your
girlfriend is cheating on you and you are the last to
know.
See if she withdraws from sex. While cheating men
are more likely to have sex even more with their
cheating partner, it's less likely for a cheating woman to
react the same way. If she's getting some love somewhere
else, then she may feel guilty, or just plain not interested,
in sleeping with you. If you previously had a pretty good
sex routine going, and now she's been "too tired" or "not
feeling well" the last ten times you tried to make
something happen, it could be a sign that she's getting
satisfied elsewhere.
If she's cheating on you, she'll also be less open with
her body. She won't want you to see her undress, and
she'll be more likely to cover up in bed.
Of course, her not wanting to have sex could just be a
sign of her general dissatisfaction with the relationship,
or just her unhappiness in her own life. Still, if she's
flirty and fun when when she leaves the house, and
completely withdrawn with you, it's a problem.
See if she stops paying attention to you at all.
What's worse than a girlfriend who constantly nags
you? One who doesn't care about you at all. Once her
interest completely fades, you'll be wishing she was still
complaining that you never do the dishes. If she has
stopped paying attention to you, asking about how work or
school is going, or even noting important events in your
life, then she has checked out, either because she's seeing
someone else or she's just not into you any more.
Once this happens, it's time to get some answers.
There's no point in continuing on if she truly seems to
have stopped caring.
See if she's suddenly too busy to hang out with
you. Were Sundays your brunch and cuddling days,
and now she's nowhere to be found on the weekends? Did
you watch your favorite TV show together every Tuesday,
and now see that she's MIA on those nights? Does she not
even apologize or notice that you're no longer doing your
usual things together? If she's suddenly slammed at work,
and spending a lot more time with friends, and spending a
lot more time at the gym, then this may be a sign that
another man is really eating up her time.
Notice how she acts when she steps out of the house to
"go meet friends." Does she look extra sexy, hum to
herself, or just act unnaturally giddy? If so, it may be
because she's meeting a special someone.
See if she gets more secretive around her phone
and computer. Previously, she showed you her
computer to point out a funny article or asked you to
check her texts for her and always left her phone out in
the open. Now, she shuts her laptop any time you come
into the room, never sends text messages in front of you,
and even added a password to her phone -- or even her
computer. If she wasn't previously private and has
changed her tune, then she must not want you to see who
she's been chatting with.
If you're really feeling bold and catch her texting, you
can casually ask her who she's talking to. See how she
reacts. Is she jumpy and defensive, or does she give a
quick and honest-sounding answer?
See if she goes MIA for hours without explanation.
This is one of the biggest red flags that your woman is
being unfaithful. If you call her or text her and hear
nothing back for several hours, then you may have a
problem. If it happens once or twice, fine. But if it's
happened multiple times a week and she always said her
phone died or that she didn't hear the ring, your guard
should be up.
When she's MIA for a few hours, casually ask her what
she's been up to. Try to read her face: does she deflect
you and look embarrassed?